Wednesday, 24 April 2013

Australia can no longer pride itself on giving everyone a ‘fair go’


With the recent legalisation of same-sex marriage in New Zealand, Prime Minister Julia Gillard is unmoved on her position against gay marriage.

By Kate Lundy from Canberra, Australia [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

''I doubt we're going to end up agreeing, I’m sorry,'' Ms Gillard said at a community cabinet meeting in Melbourne.

Gillard has said that a recent vote for the same-sex marriage bill to be passed that occurred in the House of Representatives was defeated by a vote of 98 to 42.

Australia is a country that can no longer pride itself on giving everyone a ‘fair go’ because of the Australian Government’s unwillingness to treat everybody equally.

Globally, there are many countries, which recognise same-sex marriage certificates even if you can’t get married there.

Although it is likely that many Australians are going to take the three hour flight to New Zealand to get married, when they return to Australia, sadly, their marriage won’t be legally recognised because of the laws against gay marriage.

For several years, a majority of Australians have supported marriage equality for same-sex couples. According to the Australian Marriage Equality, a website for the equality of marriage, 64% of Australians support marriage equality, 53% of Christians support marriage equality, 76% of Coalition voters want Abbott to allow a conscience vote, 75% believe the reform is inevitable, and 81% of young people (18-24 years) support marriage equality.

Though same-sex marriage is not legalised in Australia, a ‘civil union’ can be held between same-sex couples which is a legally recognised union similar to marriage.

Peter Tatchell, a Melbourne-born UK gay rights advocate says “Marriage is the internationally recognised system of relationship recognition. It is the global language of love. When we were young, most of us dreamed of one day getting married. We didn’t dream about having a civil partnership.”

There are over 190 countries in the world and only 14 of those have legalised gay marriage, including, recently, Paris, and New Zealand as the first in the Asia-Pacific to do it.

Though, gay couples will have to wait four months for the New Zealand Department of Internal Affairs to organise to receive gay marriage licences, it is expected that thousands of couples are going to fly to New Zealand to tie the knot.

Loud cheering and singing of the New Zealand love song "Pokarekare Ana" erupted as the same-sex marriage bill was passed in the New Zealand’s Parliament. The bill was passed with a large majority, with 77 votes in favour of same-sex marriage and 44 against it.

Neither Julia Gillard, nor Tony Abbot want to give the people of Australia want they want, which is same-sex marriage to be legalised in Australia. Also, neither seems to recognise or care that Australia is falling behind the rest of the world because of this out-dated minority view.

“We’ve already fallen behind the rest of the world on this issue, in fact Australia is the only English speaking democracy now with a leader of the country does not support marriage equality,” says gay rights activist Kerryn Phelps in a heated debate on Sunrise.

In May last year, Barack Obama announced that he believes that same-sex couples should be allowed to marry.

"At a certain point I've just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married," said President Barak Obama.

For children who are gay, growing up being bullied and believing that wanting to be with someone of the same sex is wrong, can lead to mental health issues and instability in their life.

“Marriage equality is primarily about ending social exclusion and giving all Australians the same basic rights. Lack of equality has strong links to mental health issues among same sex attracted young people. We want to see an end to the unnecessary stigma and isolation another generation of young Australians could face because of this inequality,” says Australia’s youth mental health foundation, Headspace's chief executive Chris Tanti.

We want the future generations to be happy in a world where everyone has the same human rights, instead of this stigma about same-sex marriage. We don’t want them growing up in a world that tells them that being yourself is wrong.

So, with this debate about same-sex marriage, we can only hope that Julia Gillard’s successor has the ability to change the laws to create a bright future for the coming generations.



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